About me
I didn’t always do this.
For many years my life was fairly ordinary.
I was born in 1976 in German-speaking Switzerland.
I trained in secretarial work and administration.
Nothing particularly heroic.
At 22 I made a decision that changed many things.
I moved to Spain.
I ended up in Dénia.
I had always been drawn to the world of hospitality and accommodation, and after quite a bit of effort I managed to get a job in a large company in the sector.
I learned a lot there.
Managing teams.
Sales.
Working with people.
Responsibility.
But I also learned something else.
Work can give you many things.
But it can also take away too much.
Stress eventually started to take its toll.
Not only because of the responsibility or the long hours.
Also because of something many people know very well.
Colleagues who seem close…
until they suddenly aren’t.
People who look like friends
but when things get difficult, show a completely different side.
Comments behind my back.
Small, pointless power games.
That kind of thing wears you down far more than the job itself.
Over time I understood something important.
A demanding job can exhaust you.
But a toxic environment can destroy you.
Until in 2013 I made a decision many people didn’t understand.
I left a job that many would have considered a success.
Because I realised something very simple:
if the price was my life, it wasn’t worth paying.
I resigned.
I went back home.
It was time to spend time with my wife, my parents… and with life itself.
Because there’s something I’m very clear about:
work is not health.
Work is simply the way we pay our bills and make a living.
Nothing more.
After that I found a job coordinating teams.
Eight and a half hours a day.
It paid the bills and it wasn’t bad.
But in 2017 something happened again that changed the direction of things.
I was fired.
For a while I didn’t really understand why.
Later I found out the usual things were behind it.
Envy.
Comments behind my back.
The small miseries that sometimes appear in any workplace.
It was uncomfortable.
But it was also useful.
Because I had already been thinking about something for a long time.
Since 2013 an idea had been slowly growing in my mind:
helping other people rethink their life, their decisions and their habits.
So in 2017 I decided to take the step.
I started reading, studying and trying to understand something that seemed obvious to me.
Many people know something in their life isn’t working.
But they spend years without changing it.
Not because they can’t.
But because they avoid certain decisions.
Then the pandemic arrived.
During that time I offered free online sessions to healthcare workers.
It was simply a way to contribute something during a difficult moment.
Eventually things calmed down.
And I slowed down too.
I don’t do this to become a millionaire.
I have another job.
I do this because I believe it’s worth doing.
Because if there’s one thing I’ve learned over all these years, it’s that real change rarely comes from some big revelation.
It usually begins in a much simpler way.
An honest conversation.
An uncomfortable question.
A moment when you stop lying to yourself.
And decide to do something different.
That’s what I do.
Nothing more.
A few other things about me
I speak seven languages.
And I studied piano for twelve years.
It doesn’t have much to do with all this.
But I think it says something about how I see things:
important skills don’t appear overnight.
They’re built slowly, through time, practice and patience.
And change in life works exactly the same way.
If after reading this you feel that something in your life also needs to change…
we can talk.
Online sessions · 45 minutes
Online session · 45 minutes · €90
